Human sexuality: how to use your sexual energy for manifestation.

Today I want to talk about sexual energy, but I'm not talking about rampaging or delaying orgasms, I'm talking about the potential of that energy. How to use that energy for spiritual enlightenment.

There are lots of different ways to do that. For example, sex is one way, but not with all kinds of different partners, but with one partner who also wants to achieve enlightenment with sex.

By the way, you don't need a partner per se to use your sexual energy, but it is helpful if you have a partner.

Sexual energy is also described in Napoleon Hill’s book *Think and Grow Rich*. There are various perspectives. In Hinduism, it resides in the first red chakra, the Kundalini, and when it awakens, it travels through all seven chakras up to the crown chakra, at which point you are enlightened. This can be quite intense; it seems that some people who experience this may be thrown off balance by it. Because if you have a blockage, that sexual energy simply breaks right through it during enlightenment. What happens is that your “I” dissolves, and you become less aware of your ego[1].

This can be so intense that people around you think you are not doing well. Experiences of people who have had this awakening while having no spiritual background also show that they then often get a psychiatric check-up, i.e., whether everything is going well. What was striking was that with the people who had such an experience spirituality was never something they were concerned with. They often already had some problems and despite the fact that people around them thought it was a psychiatric thing, they themselves indicated that it was really a spiritual awakening or change[2].

Then it's helpful if you're kind of "clean" when you start experimenting, lest your surroundings think you've gone crazy 😉 .

The Japanese call it Hara Point, the Chinese the Dan Chen, in India Prana. But it's all about the life energy in the belly.

As a symbol, I use the Kundalini snake. Which has the potential to illuminate everything, but also to destroy everything.

Let me use a male example for a moment. A man has about 7,000 ejaculations in his life. I have no idea if this is accurate; I haven't counted them.

But imagine that's just 7,000 kids. That's a mega large number. Imagine there are multiple births among them. Then you just have 10,000 children. You can just create a village with that. Of course you also need someone else, but it's two cells that can create a being that is made up of trillions of cells all working together in that body.

So the potential of human sexuality, of that sexual energy, is extreme.

How does sexual energy work?

With a man and woman, things can work slightly differently, but they say that with a man, a steady partner is very important very quickly. Because that sexual energy is a creative force.

Men think with their belly and genitals, that's where that energy is too, and if you don't have a steady partner that energy goes to different women/men. It spreads out.

Your creative power, your sixth chakra, your third eye, it will not be fed. The ideas you get become nothing, because they are not fed by the energy from your gut. It is not being fed enough.

Therefore, there is a theory that a steady partner is good to have, so that you can also release that energy in sex, but then you can get the rest of that energy through your spine to the upper chakra in a kind of enlightenment. You then feed all the chakras with that energy from the earth.

Think from the earth upward instead of the universe downward

You find that if you do this from the bottom up, something interesting can happen.

You can get a picture of what you want your life to look like. You can feed that image with that energy and then it becomes a reality. Otherwise, it remains a dream.

There are also people who use that energy for something they don’t want. “I don’t really want this job, but I do need the financial security.” That energy flows too, but because you don’t want it, you suppress it—and then it destroys you. That’s when you burn out.

There is too much fire then that you are not channeling. You are not burned out, but you are on fire and burning.

So there’s a lot of fire, but if you’re suffering from burnout, you don’t know how to channel it. Ancient texts say that you have a blockage, that the energy then flows downward again, and you notice this, for example, in depression and fatigue[3].

So you can let that energy go from the bottom up, instead of the top down.

I always found it easy to let energy flow from top to bottom. To get ideas in my head and then let that go down, but then it stalled somewhere with me.

Now I'm just getting that energy going from the bottom up. So imagine: you go up through the energy of the earth, what image comes up? If you do this from the earth instead of coming up with something yourself?

That's not always convenient, to figure it out on your own. What is helpful is to get into a kind of hypnotic state and then let the image come to you.

Moving meditation for boosting energy

But then you have to have energy to get that picture. You have to be able to fuel that with energy. Otherwise, it's not going to be anything.

You can do this with yoga, tai chi, and all forms of movement[4]. It’s also possible with meditation, but I think it works better with movement—and maybe even if you break a little sweat. That helps you connect a little more deeply with your body.

Then use the visualization that you are awakening the snake, that you are awakening the energy.

What's important is attention. Not necessarily on what you want, but attention on your first and second chakras. The red and orange ones. When you have your attention on that area, that's where your life energy is, you visualize for yourself whatever it looks like to you.

For me, that's slang.

So I imagine that hose goes up with that energy. That inexhaustible energy is there in everyone. When you are very tired, that energy works against you. Then it swallows you up. But if you are doing well, so you feel energetic.

It is a huge potential energy.

When you look at mass becoming energy, like a nuclear bomb. Then it's worth noting that as many atoms as there are in a grape were used for the bomb in Hiroshima. So there is already that much energy in a grape. So how much energy is in you?

That's the potential of the energy inside you. What do you use it for and how does it engulf you?

Before you crank up that energy, you can do a lot of cleaning up. I've been cleaning up a lot in my life and working on my relationship (which I've had for more than 20 years now). So I thought, "Now I kind of have the building blocks that make sure I can do this safely."

To experiment with attention. You imagine there is energy at the bottom of your spine and you can awaken it. When it awakens, you let it pass through your spine. Then if you notice anything, you stop. You let the snake do its work. You do this very quietly. You go along all the centers and chakras. Your heart, your throat, your neck, your third eye and then your crown. You take all of those.

Then you automatically feel if there is something somewhere and then you do something with it.

At some point you've cleared that path and then it's good to think about what you want. Then get that energy involved and you'll see that you get things done even much faster than you are now.

Be sure to listen to this podcast as well:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/38WZryuu31Gc0dC8Siic5i?si=7e16cba181764c6b

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