Releasing negative thoughts: this thought means nothing

Edwin Selij
July 29, 2021

Releasing negative thoughts is very helpful for getting a more positive mindset and getting more energy. You may know it that when you get out of bed with the wrong foot, it is not helpful for the rest of the day

Effects of negative thoughts

Negative thoughts often seem to have an effect that leaves you more tired than when you have positive thoughts. Things also often seem to go less smoothly.

Research also shows that people who worry a lot —a form of negative thinking—have more difficulty performing a cognitive task than people who don’t worry much[1]. If you then notice that such a task isn’t going well because of your worries, this in turn leads to even more negative thoughts.

This is part of why it is so important to let go of negative thoughts, because before you know it you have conjured up a tsunami of negativity in your mind.

As if that weren’t enough, negative thoughts can also influence the pain you experience. For example, people who suffer from sickle cell disease, rheumatism, and chronic pain notice that certain negative thoughts cause them to experience more pain.

The study examined negative thoughts about oneself, negative thoughts about social issues, and self-blame. People who were significantly affected by these factors also experienced more pain than those who thought less negatively[2].

Negative thoughts also make it harder to bounce back after a setback.

Where do these thoughts come from?

Negative thoughts are often triggered by your beliefs, and those beliefs often originate in childhood.

Chinese research shows that when children have been abused or neglected, they are more likely to suffer from automatic negative thoughts later in life than children with "normal" childhoods[3].

All those unpleasant events in your childhood may have made you feel that you’re not good enough, or that you’re bad, or something similar, and in your mind you might find yourself replaying things that caregivers or even classmates said to you.

This is incredibly unfortunate, because as an adult in particular, you no longer need to be around these people, and it would be a shame if their statements were still on your mind.

Releasing negative thoughts

In general, cognitive behavioral therapy is used to let go of negative thoughts. You can therefore do certain exercises to let go of the meaning behind something and thus let go of the negative thoughts.

By 1916, people had already discovered that if you repeat a word very often its meaning becomes less and less[4]. Suddenly, for example, you hear how weird a certain word actually sounds and you only listen to the sounds of the word.

This is also nicely represented by Hans Teeuwen when he repeats the word boom several times in one of his performances (which has been around for at least 20 years or so).

These types of exercises help reduce the discomfort that negative thoughts can give you and help you reduce the credibility of negative thoughts.

But then again, what word should you start repeating?

To make it a little easier for a random person, I also have an exercise for you.

Exercise for releasing negative thoughts:

You might think you need to go into therapy to release negative thoughts, but sometimes certain exercises can get you a long way.

In a series of spiritual lessons, I have instructed you to think with your thoughts for one minute, "These thoughts don't mean anything." This exercise can help you tremendously in releasing negative thoughts.

What's more, any thoughts you have - including positive or negative - can be released for a while.

First, you just start observing your thoughts and in doing so you think it means nothing.

Don't do this for more than a minute and don't do it more often than three or four times a day.

Also listen to this podcast with the exercise and explanation of the exercise:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/195236/7109677-eciw-les-4?play=true

Hypnosis and negative thoughts

One thought that can incredibly bother you is the thought of not being loved.

Before this, a woman was treated with cognitive behavioral therapy with hypnosis. She also learned self-hypnosis to suffer less from this.

In this she got:

This helped her feel normal again[5].

You can let go of negative thoughts, but what often happens then is that a kind of void is created.

You can then use the positive suggestions to fill that void that can be created by letting go of those negative thoughts. Then there is no place for them to come back either.

These may include suggestions such as:

"I am loved."

"I can do anything."

"I'm good enough."

These are just examples, these can work well for you, but do you still notice they don't? Then a hypnotherapist can help you find suggestions that will help in your specific case.

Becoming aware of negative thoughts

Another way to suffer less from negative thoughts is to say to yourself - as soon as you notice that you are having a negative thought:

"This thought means nothing."

Then, using all your senses, you’ll focus completely on the task you were actually working on. This is a form of mindfulness meditation. The goal is to live more in the moment and be less preoccupied with the past or your future.

Visualizations against negative thoughts

A visualization can also help you very well against negative thoughts. Multiple visualizations are possible to resolve them.

For example, you can simply have a relaxing visualization. For example, you then visualize a pleasant place where you are relaxing.

But you can also shape that negative thought and then make it disappear. Like a balloon full of negativity that you let fly away.

Sometimes you actually visualize the source of your negative thought—for example, someone from your past who was often negative—and then you forgive that person .

Or you visualize yourself, your younger self, telling that younger self that the past is already over and that now everything is fine.

Visualizations can be used in a very versatile way. Which visualization helps against negative thoughts varies from person to person. If you know hypnosis, you can do a lot with self-hypnosis to use visualizations to release negative thoughts.

Which visualization is best for you, you can ask a hypnotherapist first.

Relaxation Techniques

Relaxation techniques against negative thoughts especially help you recover from your physical reaction to those negative thoughts. You may notice that negative thoughts make you very tense.

Then when you have done the exercise from this text, but the tension is not gone from your body, it can be very annoying.

Relaxation can also help you perform the exercise more easily.

For example, it is an important step before performing self-hypnosis.

There are a few steps to help you relax:

  • Step 1: Find a quiet place where you can lie or sit comfortably.
  • Step 2: Make sure you have comfortable clothes on and sit or lie down.
  • Step 3: Close your eyes and breathe calmly. Breathe through your belly through your nose.
  • Step 4: Relax your muscles. If necessary, use a mindfulness body scan for this.

After a while, you will find that you are completely relaxed and may even have fewer thoughts at all in this state.

Want to learn more about how hypnosis works and how it helps you release negative thoughts?

Then come join the free online masterclass on hypnosis.

Or sign up right away for one of our courses. It’s a great way to help yourself—or to help others.

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Sources:

[1] https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/1097-4679(199001)46:1%3C78::AID-JCLP2270460113%3E3.0.CO;2-R

[2] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0005789405803363

[3] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0886260520912582

[4] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0005796703002894

[5] https://europepmc.org/article/med/32296221