The secret to cabaret and comedians are 2 things
The secret to cabaret and comedians are 2 things
February 19, 2013
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The secret to cabaret and comedians are 2 things

What has always fascinated me is cabaret. And then mainly 2 things. How do they make sure they hold your attention and how do they make you laugh. Now of course humor is personal and some like different jokes than others, but the process fascinates me and I have discovered some for myself

The secret of the joke

Now what makes a joke, funny? That is quite subjective so in other words, it is different for everyone. What one person finds very funny, another finds really terrible.

And then you also have various forms of jokes. Humbug is one of them, satire, impersonations, caricatures or jokes are all forms of humor and making a joke or jokes.

Humor is very personal of course and some people love black humor and others don't at all. Some find Mr. Bean totally awesome and others super bland.

Yet you can dissect humor and use it for many different things. The secret to the joke is the unexpected. You think things are going one way but suddenly something changes.

'I went to the doctor and the doctor told me I had cancer... I reassured him because it's pretty intense to tell that to someone,' Herman Finkers said in one of his performances.

Because one thing you expect and think is going the way you expect is the twist that makes you laugh or at least think for a moment. That unexpectedness combined with timing, facial expressions and tonality of voice makes it funny.

Humor is a great way to keep one's attention. My trainings are full of humor because I know that it keeps the attention and makes learning easier. Trainees always say that time flies by.

The secret of stories

Another way to keep their attention is storytelling. Cabaret performers are very good at doing this and often tell a story as a thread through the performance.

Furthermore, they also often narrate nested loops. I am a huge fan of Ronald Goedemondt and he is also a master at narrating Nested Loops.

Nested loops are stories within stories within stories. One story starts and is not finished and another story is started. Then that story is also unfinished and another new story is started and so you create the next one.

Nested Loops

You can see that after story 3, for example, a strategy can be installed or a good suggestion can be given. Because you then finish the stories again you create amnesia for the suggestion.

In the case of the comedians , this keeps their attention and keeps the mind open because somewhere you want the story to finish and you remain curious for more.

Humor and Stories

Storytelling is an art that you will discover, for example, in the masterpractitioner with us. Humor is additionally something you can also learn although of course that is very personal.

If you master both then your presentations will naturally improve and people will stay with them longer. If you start mastering these two secrets then you can gain a huge advantage in your communication with people.

I'd love to hear from you what you do to hold people's attention.

About the author
Edwin Selij is owner and founder of Hypnose Instituut Nederland and provides training in Hypnosis. He is author of the books "You Don't Have It You Do It" and "Break Free!" and regularly appears on radio and TV to talk about hypnosis. He is the #1 Hypnosis Trainer in the Netherlands and has been giving hypnosis training for years. He was the first in the Netherlands to teach modern hypnotherapy via livestream.
Annelies
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Annelies

on 19 Feb 2013

What I do, to hold people's attention ...hm .... difficult, difficult ... for the people, who listen to me, I mean. Their body language already speaks volumes after a few minutes, even if they nod quasi interested, but with clear disbelief in the eyes, the head, when I try to explain the sense and nonsense of e.g. anti-biotics and/or vaccinations etc. ... Regularly looking impatiently at their watch.... I know that it is time to stop. As an animal protector, who has lived and worked for more than 20 years among sometimes more than 330 dogs, and in that time has seen more than 10,000 sick, old, young or disabled dogs pass in review, so I have gained quite a bit of practical experience.... I am seen a bit as a brainless object .... well particularly, so a particularly mindless object. A newly graduated veterinarian, still green as grass, has a lot less trouble with that ... I mean with keeping attention. He immediately gets a horde of "good" believers and yes-men in his fan club, especially if he also wears a white coat and uses expensive terms ... Maybe a nice certificate on the wall ... with all kinds of expensive veterinary titles on it. Or a copy of a russian forgery .... look just real ...or .... I'll make something up at the bottom, in small, illegible letters, April 1, 1975 .... Should people not immediately think, that my cited, regularly occurring, incident is made up .... unfortunately .... for the people that is, because their wallets would benefit.By the way, am a lover of cabaret.Annelies

domien
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domien

on Feb 26, 2013

Annelies, I recognize your story. I am 26 years old and I clearly notice that my parents' generation (+/- 50 years old) often still have the idea that you are only good if you have the right diplomas. Nowadays, the diploma thing does not seem to be a good reference at all to know if someone is competent in his profession. I also used to know a family doctor who (apparently) got the diploma of doctor, but in his practice did not examine the patients properly. For example, I once came to him with a sprained ankle and his examination was just literally rubbing my foot for a while. And his advice was just rest. After resting for six months I started playing sports again and immediately pain returned.... went to another doctor and immediately had pictures and ultrasound done and then they even said it had already become chronic inflammation. My view is that if people do their job with passion, then they do quality work. Doing a job with the main intention of making money and not caring much in your work tasks is lower quality. It is important to find out in which job we can express our passion and then people are satisfied even without 1 diploma on the wall. Okay for legislation you need something diploma, but you don't need to learn everything through courses... Edwin, I read your article again. Very fine info. I didn't know Ronald Goedemondt yet. Just checked him out on youtube. I also like seeing him at work. I personally also like najib amhali (he often uses nested loop stories). Cab is his best clip for me. Bart cannaerts I also think is super. He often tells very recognizable stories and I see him clearly showing his inner child pieces. So without embarrassment in a playful way telling stories. A great example for me to take life less seriously and allow more fun ;-)

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