What has always fascinated me is cabaret. And then mainly 2 things. How do they make sure they hold your attention and how do they make you laugh. Now of course humor is personal and some like different jokes than others, but the process fascinates me and I have discovered some for myself
The secret of the joke
Now what makes a joke, funny? That is quite subjective so in other words, it is different for everyone. What one person finds very funny, another finds really terrible.
And then you also have various forms of jokes. Humbug is one of them, satire, impersonations, caricatures or jokes are all forms of humor and making a joke or jokes.
Humor is very personal of course and some people love black humor and others don't at all. Some find Mr. Bean totally awesome and others super bland.
Yet you can dissect humor and use it for many different things. The secret to the joke is the unexpected. You think things are going one way but suddenly something changes.
'I went to the doctor and the doctor told me I had cancer... I reassured him because it's pretty intense to tell that to someone,' Herman Finkers said in one of his performances.
Because one thing you expect and think is going the way you expect is the twist that makes you laugh or at least think for a moment. That unexpectedness combined with timing, facial expressions and tonality of voice makes it funny.
Humor is a great way to keep one's attention. My trainings are full of humor because I know that it keeps the attention and makes learning easier. Trainees always say that time flies by.
The secret of stories
Another way to keep their attention is storytelling. Cabaret performers are very good at doing this and often tell a story as a thread through the performance.
Furthermore, they also often narrate nested loops. I am a huge fan of Ronald Goedemondt and he is also a master at narrating Nested Loops.
Nested loops are stories within stories within stories. One story starts and is not finished and another story is started. Then that story is also unfinished and another new story is started and so you create the next one.

You can see that after story 3, for example, a strategy can be installed or a good suggestion can be given. Because you then finish the stories again you create amnesia for the suggestion.
In the case of the comedians , this keeps their attention and keeps the mind open because somewhere you want the story to finish and you remain curious for more.
Humor and Stories
Storytelling is an art that you will discover, for example, in the masterpractitioner with us. Humor is additionally something you can also learn although of course that is very personal.
If you master both then your presentations will naturally improve and people will stay with them longer. If you start mastering these two secrets then you can gain a huge advantage in your communication with people.
I'd love to hear from you what you do to hold people's attention.
Annelies
on 19 Feb 2013domien
on Feb 26, 2013