Psychologists and psychiatrists depend

Dependency or Self-Efficacy

What I love about doing sessions with people is how you go into those sessions. Let me explain that. You can go into a session very seriously and then see what happens. Or you can start a session in such a way that it immediately puts the client on a track of change.

If you read serious books on therapy you will be hypnotized into thinking that that is the way to treat. Study books make you a student who knows a lot about it, but not necessarily a therapist who can do it too

Dependency or self-reliance

If you read other books, such as those by Bandler and Grinder for example, you get a very different idea of doing therapy.

It's also a matter of what you believe about the client sitting across from you.

Do you believe that the client has something they need to learn to deal with and you need to help them with it or do you believe that the client can get rid of it and is self-reliant enough to do so.

Those two starting points are very different. I used to scour forums where people gathered with anxiety disorders. They had a therapist for years and then when summer came around they were upset because the therapist was going on vacation.

"What Now?

This was so strange to me, because I had been taught that an anxiety can go away in one or two sessions, and these people had been seeing a therapist for months. I always wondered what they were doing then so I started attending one of those sessions.

And then I got it.

The starting point was very different. First came the hypnosis that I would never be able to get rid of it and then that I would have to take pills....

Yes, you do keep your clients that way. Look I won't argue that those people who walk for months with a therapist could get rid of it in one or two sessions, but in three you could. Why? The starting point is different. The therapist's belief is so important. If I already don't believe in you that you can do it and get rid of it, who will believe it?

And that belief makes things happen much faster. It's that simple.

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