Coping behavior is a very good thing to do

There are too many copies and far too few copies.

Let me explain. Monkeys mimic monkeys and humans are just like that. Fine, because that's how we learn to walk, talk, read, do math and essentially everything useful for survival in this society.

We copy each other. But yes, the question is, "Whom are we copying...

Mostly from people who can't necessarily do it very well either. And then we become like that

Copycat behavior is very good

Find your own uniqueness you'll hear. Sounds ok, but if that means being even worse than the rest, then you better become a good copy.

Of course, you can try to invent the wheel yourself, but the wheel already exists. Is almost already so perfected that there is little you can improve upon it. Better to copy it.

That goes for almost anything. Want to build a business? Then copy strategies from people who have already done so. Want to build a loving relationship? Then copy the people who are already doing it, and preferably have been doing it for years.

We don't have enough good copy. That's why most entrepreneurs go out of business or quit. That's why there are so many divorces these days. That's why there are so many kids with problems. We keep trying to invent the wheel ourselves, when the wheel already exists.

Because of the bullshit reason that we can do better. When often we don't (read: almost never!). Lame to say maybe, but you are not that unique at all. Your problems are not unique, your struggles are not unique, your experiences are not unique and you? You are not that unique either.

Neither do I. Is that a bad thing? No. Most of it is just another person's copy. There is obviously a little bit of you in there, but not a whole lot.

If that's what you want to think, fine. You're not unique in that either, in fact that's what most people want. The feeling that they are unique and biologically they are. So you have that.

But much more convenient is to see how to become a damn good copy. Imagine copying a millionaire, someone who is in a top relationship, a good father or mother, someone who is super healthy and the fittest man/woman in the world.

Then you're a damn good copy that's probably also very unique.