When I work with clients, which I don't do as much these days, I always look for love. After all, the problem they are experiencing can always be traced back to love.
After all, that's what you want. You want love.
And if you have to go create problems for that, you do.
All is Love
Look at women who fall for flawed men. All from love.
Or people who are afraid to show themselves. All from love.
From love? You don't do it out of love, do you? Well, think it through.
Imagine you don't feel good enough and because of that you are always looking for a man who makes you feel that way. So that's always exactly right, even though you don't want it.
But how come you don't feel good enough? Biologically, that's not true because if you really hadn't been good enough, you'd be among all your potential siblings who ended up in a shower drain....
It was instilled in you, you adopted it and now do it from love.
Love? Yes, because you are probably doing things right now that cause you to get attention, you want to prove that you are good enough, and occasionally you may experience a feeling of love as a result.
But that's not convenient, is it? Well, when you were little, that was the best way. You wanted food, drink and love. You found solutions to get that. That you lost your own color in the process was the price you paid for survival and for that bit of love.
Now, of course, it no longer works so well, but go ahead and change it. It worked, it still gets you something, so go with it. Out of love for yourself...
When you can feel that, you can also immediately become gentle and mild toward yourself. After all, you have your best interests at heart. Why wouldn't you?
You came alone, you have only yourself, so it makes sense that you are programmed to have your best interests at heart. That it may seem like you're doing something different and maybe even hurting yourself, that's possible.
But why you do it is out of love. You love yourself and I love you too ❤️
